So let us find out what happened to the girl.
This girl was heartbroken. Have you ever been in love and settled or done things to your level best and expected a good pay only for things to turn south on her as things rapidly fell apart at the least expected time. Well that is what she was going through. She tried addressing the matter and the man just ignored her. I don’t know what happens with people after they have found greener pastures, they became rude or something of the sort.
After two months, she got sick and had to book an appointment to see the doctor and the results that came after were discouraging. guess what? she got Sexually Transmitted Disease from the man when he started seeing other women. Give me an enormous reason why this girl didn’t have to think of suicide? well, this is what happened next, she took her broken pieces, she had an open mind and decided to carry on with life. That is what we call optimism.
The girl moved out and got a smaller house, she literally started from scratch, she got a job which sustained her, while she dated the boyfriend, she lost almost all the good friends she had because the man was her everything and she ignored everything else. This being her hardest time in a while, she didn’t know how to survive this is where suicidal thoughts arose from. she felt like she wasn’t good enough for anyone or anything. she felt worthless. she felt hurt and broken beyond repair.
One day, she met with her good old time friend at the supermarket as she was running some errands. The friend was called Britney and she was shocked to see how the friend looked, she was worn out, she looked like a ‘walking stick’ (for lack of a better word). she was slender than usual and that was not her normal stature. They started having a conversation with the friend and that’s when Britney realized what had happened to her. At this point at least she had a shoulder to lean on.
Britney being a good friend walked her home ensured that she had eaten, had a clean house and clean clothes and that she was settled. You know girl bonding moments. referring to my previous post healing is a process, this heartbroken girl got saved and started going to church and attending Bible studies and this helped her get through the pain she had slowly.
This is for you who is reading this, whenever things do not work out as you expect them to, do not think of suicide, there is always a better way out. Seek for friends who will help you.
Lessons to deduce from this story
- Put God first in all you do because He will take care of you at your best or worst no matter how hard it is.
- Walk away from demeaning situations unapologetic.
- Live your live with a purpose.
- Keep your friends close no matter the situation, they always come in handy.
- No situation is too hard to handle, if it happened to you the you can handle it.
- You’re a precious jewel, seek to stand out and be treated right